Don’t ignore your little habit, it may be affecting your child’s development!

The harmony of a family needs to go through a long time of common run-in, high quality of common life, fine joint management and dedication. It’s also about working together towards the same goal — parenting success.

Family education is an indispensable part of personal education, personal success can not be separated from family education, on the contrary, family education is also without personal pay, so family education is to put it bluntly, a person affects another person.

Through personal behavior in the family, the words and deeds of others and their subtle influence, so that another person can get positive experience or negative lessons, so as to promote the growth of individuals. As a result, the small habits that are overlooked during the child’s development can also have an immeasurable impact on the child.

First up today, we’re going to look at the effects of dad’s little habits on his kids.

1. Love to smile

Smile is a simple expression, but has extraordinary meaning, especially dad’s smile, smile makes people warm, close interpersonal relationship, convey happy mood.

A father who loves to laugh must be optimistic, cheerful and gentle. Children who grow up in a smile are also positive, in the face of setbacks, a smile of his father is synonymous with encouragement, courage, strong, smile can open flowers in setbacks; Conversely, it may be the straw that breaks the camel’s back.

2. Love sports

Life lies in sports, sports make people healthy and happy. When the father sports with the child, while exercising, while closer to the parent-child relationship. Running to adjust psychological emotions, jumping to relieve psychological pressure, spin flying psychological passion.

Solo sports cultivate competitive skills, team sports cultivate unity and cooperation spirit. A healthy body is the capital of the revolution, and a healthy mind is the key to success. A father loves sports, and his children are not lazy. A healthy body and a good mind will help their children have a sunny future.

3. Love reading

In today’s society, palm reading, light reading, fragmented reading and other ways emerge in an endless stream, newspapers, magazines, classics and other reading materials, comic edition, text edition, audio edition dizzying always have a suitable for you. And a father who likes to read will cultivate a child of temperament, after all, “the book has its own Yan jade” “abdominal poetry gas from China” is witnessed.

Reading is a process of dialectic thinking, which can cultivate children’s literary literacy, increase children’s insight, train children’s thinking, let children establish the correct three views, act at a moderate level.

4. Love health

Good health awareness will bring profound impact on yourself, your family and your children. From the details, if the father is a insist on washing hands before meals, after the toilet; Keep your face and nails neat; Dress clean, decent people, then the child is also bound to be fresh hair, bright eyes, school uniform clean sunshine youth.

The impact will be with the child for the rest of his life, and even the education of the next generation will therefore be imperceptible, and eventually will be natural. Hygiene leads to good interpersonal relationships, a healthy living environment, and a positive learning atmosphere.

The above are good habits of dads to positively influence their children. On the contrary, we should be vigilant about some of the father’s bad habits to bring negative effects on children, family education should be prepared for a rainy day, it is too late to fix.

1. You lose your temper

In a family, if the father loves to lose his temper, then the child is equivalent to living in deep water. For a long time in this environment, the child will have a variety of problems: the father produces rejection, resistance, fear psychology, leading to parent-child relationship is not compatible; Because of fear, fear, lack of security, disappointment in the family or withdrawal from family life, refusing to return to the family; They are prone to physical health problems such as arrhythmia and tinnitus, as well as mental health problems such as sensitivity, inferiority, or irritability, which adversely affect their physical and mental development.

2. Love sleeping in

For all fathers, it is a matter of course to sleep until they wake up naturally on weekend mornings.

Parents are children’s best teachers, honestly don’t cheat me.

Children learn from their fathers, and sleeping in breaks the biological clock and the regular schedule, which affects not only the development of the body but also the formation of habits. Procrastination, lack of perseverance, easy to drift; Muddle along, lack of goals, do things without a plan; Personality defects such as lack of ambition, sense of honor and responsibility are not conducive to a child’s success on the road to growth.

3. Love to talk dirty

Language is the key to interpersonal communication, the tool of thought expression and the carrier of emotion transmission. In production and life, in the collision of tradition and modernity, online and offline interaction, reality and virtual parallel in modern modern life, not only the essence, dross are also inherited and innovated, such as dirty words.

Father like to say dirty words is not a few, in this kind of influence children will only have two extremes, or hate, despise, despise; Or follow suit, excel, and be proud of it. But more is the latter kind, fool, fool, silly bag is the nickname, single cell, protein, microorganism is civilization language, as well as nasty words filled in the ear, change is not only the quantitative change of everyday language, but also the qualitative change of mentality, the child finally difficult to become a moral, three correct people.

4, do not speak of hygiene

Children’s healthy hygiene habits come from the parents’ words and deeds, especially the example, if the father does not speak hygiene will set a bad example to the children. Children have a sample to learn like, when I was a child before dinner after the toilet do not wash hands, slugs, small sloppy is the norm; Mud children sitting on the ground, standing against the wall, rolling all over the floor are not uncommon; One can find one thing or another in the crumpled and twisted books, the messy satchels, the reborn exercise books. Grow a bit of dry warped collar, sweat cuffs, shiny pockets. A larger room like a pig’s nest, quilts like dried vegetables, tables like stalls. Hard to say it wasn’t the father.

Habit is not just talk, develop is not overnight, less into if sex is a consistent cultivation. In family education, in the process of developing children’s habits, the youth’s growth journey, no matter what kind of father you are, what kind of habits, should secretly reflect on, whether the daily as shown above.

Loud temper, calm sleep in, dirty do not speak hygiene, freely speak dirty words; Or sweating it out at the gym or the sports field; Savor life in novels and biographies; Or smile and smell the detergent. No matter which kind, should serve the healthy growth of children, I hope that all fathers can set an example, with words as the rule, with behavior ruler, to set a good example for their children.