The education of parents determines the future of children, and the pocket-sized baby’s experience is inseparable from her parents

Nowadays, people attach great importance to height. Every parent wants their children to be tall, which is not only conducive to their children’s future job hunting and courtship, but also beneficial to the future generation. Unfortunately, despite the appeal of parents, the height of many children is related to genetic factors. If the parents are not tall, it is difficult for the children to grow tall. Even if the parents are tall, the children may not grow tall, that is, the children suffer from diseases, such as dwarfism.

Dwarfism is defined as a child who is less than 4 ‘4 “tall, a child whose parents are perfectly normal and normal, but whose genes changed while the child was still in the mother’s body.

“When God closes a door, he opens a window.” Children with dwarfism are not tall, but their appearance level is basically high.

Just like I have seen a news event: a very beautiful “pocket” girl and a boy who is also “pocket” married, two people are very high level of appearance, can be said to be a match is very talented and beautiful, and they are really in love. Although both are in their 30s, they still look like 10-year-old children. Their special marriage has attracted many blessings and worries.

Because the height of “pocket” people and normal people are quite different, therefore, they will have a lot of inconvenience in life, mainly reflected in the following three points:

Daily life: toilets, stairs, wardrobes, kitchens and so on are all set according to the height of normal people. While these items are easily accessible to normal people by lifting their hands, they are obviously not so convenient for “pocket” people, who are likely to need a stool to reach, or use, these items normally.

In addition, clothes, pants and shoes are also designed according to normal height, and because of this, many “pocket” people have to wear children’s clothes all the time or custom-made clothes, pants and shoes.

Psychology: Although the “pocket” person looks like a little doll on the outside, but their mental age is increasing all the time, reaching the 20s, 30s and even 40s. But when “pocket” people go out, often because they look like a child, by others special treatment, resulting in “pocket” people’s normal psychological needs and emotions are ignored, which is a very uncomfortable thing.

And not all people can understand and bless the “pocket” people, and some people see the special situation of the “pocket” people will ridicule them, or even regard them as monsters, which is extremely easy to lead to “pocket” people inferiority

Procreation: Getting married and having children is a challenge for the “mini” people. The chance of marrying a normal person is almost zero. They usually marry someone with the same form of dwarfism, and the chance of marriage is very small. Even if they were married, it would be difficult to have a healthy baby. As mentioned above, “pocket” people are caused by a genetic mutation, and since it is a gene, it is likely to be passed on to the next generation. As a result, many “small” people want to have children, but they are afraid of having children. They are afraid of passing on their diseases to their children.

Even if the “pocket” people over the heart that pass, decide to have a child, but pregnancy for them, is also a very dangerous thing. Because “pocket” people are smaller, their abdominal space is also smaller than normal people, so when they are pregnant because of the compression of the organs, it is likely that they can not hold the baby to term, many “pocket” people pregnant, have to caesarean section in advance.

If there is such a “pocket” girl in the family, how should parents treat and educate the child, so that he/she can grow up healthily both physically and mentally?

Parents should tell their children to cultivate their strengths and avoid their weaknesses.

Everyone has shortcomings, everyone has advantages, parents should tell their children, identify their own defects, and at the same time be good at finding their own bright spot, in order to cultivate children’s confidence and sense of achievement, give children more courage.

Children can do things to let the child do, do not help the child to do, it will aggravate their psychological inferiority.

Parents should be a good example.

In order to cultivate children’s positive attitude, parents should first have a good attitude, optimistic when facing problems, and usually maintain a happy mood, only in this way, children will be affected by their parents, become optimistic and cheerful.

“Pocket” people are poor, their physical defects, from the moment of birth has been doomed to be unable to change, but their heart, their knowledge, as well as the attitude towards life, most of them can be changed, and a lot of people’s positive and optimistic attitude towards life, also worth many normal people to learn. Therefore, parents should tell their children to face up to themselves bravely and face up to life, only in this way “pocket” people will no longer poor, pathetic, they will become respectable.