If a child is bullied, we as adults have several views on this, one is to choose to comfort their own children and remind them to stay away from children who love to bully, the second is to let the child firmly eased back. The third is for parents to take their children to the door.
These three ways of dealing with the situation will bring different consequences, the first way will develop the child cowardly, timid and fearful character, everything choose to tolerate, they will live an unhappy life, the second way to allow the child to exercise their own ability to deal with things, who bullies us, to return fire back. Of course to grasp the degree, the most undesirable is the third, parents are also involved in children’s affairs.
Two days ago, our downstairs surrounded by a group of people, even 110 came, the cause of the matter is two children had a conflict, but also hands, the results of one of the parents with children aggressively hit the door, are 11 or 12-year-old children, it is a critical period in the formation of the world view of life, but also this period, the child to learn how to live in harmony with the community, and other children in harmony, but this The parent’s approach is simply awful, he let the child think that by force can solve the problem, he made a very bad example, in the end, are taken away by 110, is a very embarrassing end.
On the contrary, I appreciate a mother’s approach to education, she encouraged her children to boldly fight for their rights, her son was four years old, once, when playing on the slide, over a child, he insisted that he let over, he did not let, as a result, later the child called his brother, his brother actually said, in the future, you do not grab the slide with my brother. The four-year-old surprisingly replied, “Why? This is a public area, whoever arrives first can play. As his mother predicted, the child never grabbed the slide again, and the two of them played together.
How children get along with others, we as parents should guide more, care more, and master the skills and wisdom of conflict resolution in order to be independent in society.
