Parents tell their daughter these three lines ahead of time, and she will appreciate it in the future, especially the last one

Relatives have a daughter, very sensible, academic performance is the best of the whole grade, but although relatives are very proud, but always very sorry, often in front of the daughter sighed: “If you are a son.”

Every time a relative said this, his daughter would become so upset and uncomfortable that she almost burst into tears several times.

You may think it is amazing, now that everyone advocates equality between men and women, how can people still think that boys are better than girls?

But it is indeed an undeniable fact that son preference still exists in many families, especially in some rural areas, parents want to have a son to inherit the family line is deeply rooted.

Although on the surface, boys and girls seem to be the same, but deep down, they think that girls are not better than boys. Don’t assume that such thoughts have nothing to do with words. In fact, parents’ views on gender can easily influence their children.

Imagine if your parents constantly told you that you were no match for boys. Would you still be confident? Parents often indoctrinate children with this kind of thought, it is likely to become a girl’s psychological suggestion.

Over time, she will feel that she is really no match for the boys, thus becoming inferior, even hate their own gender, reject their own gender.

So what should parents do? If you have a daughter, here are three things to tell her: “Don’t let your gender determine your limits!”

Have heard such a story:

Once upon a time there was a group of rabbits in the forest. Half of them were white rabbits and half were black rabbits. Every day they had to go through the forest to find a place to eat, but the food in this place was limited, and some rabbits did not have enough to eat at all.

In order to solve the problem, the black rabbits did something about it. They told the white rabbits that they could not run fast because their tails were short, and that they should stay at home and not go out as much as possible because their coats were so conspicuous that they could be found and eaten by eagles. The White Rabbit believed this and never went out again.

The black rabbit got all the food he wanted, while the white rabbit had to live at the hands of the black rabbit and wait on them in exchange for a little food.

But after a long time, some of the white rabbits realized that something was wrong. They tried to get out of the house, and then they found that they could run as fast as the black rabbits, or even faster!

Gender is born, we have no way to decide, but gender does not mean ability.

In the comments section, I’ve always seen things like this: There’s a reason why our ancestors told women to stay at home.

What is it?

Just brainwashed for a long time, and I really believe it.

Gender is innate, we can’t decide, but that doesn’t mean it should determine our ceiling. Girls can also realize their own life value, also can not be worse than boys.

As parents, we should teach our daughters this, not attack her gender and tell her that women are inferior to men.

Second sentence: “Love don’t forget to love yourself!”

It is said that mother’s love is the most selfless love, this is true, but if in turn must ask women must be selfless dedication for their children, it is a kind of prejudice.

It is true that a woman has the responsibility to raise and educate her own children, but this does not mean that she should take all the responsibility.

How much widowed parenting is going on in our families today? Obviously the child is also the father’s child, but he only knows how to give money, other responsibilities are thrown to women, this itself is a kind of unfair.

Back to children, do women have to sacrifice their dreams and lose themselves for the sake of children? This is not to say that all women should not love their children, but in the love of children, love others, must not forget to love yourself.

If you have a daughter, please tell her this. Only by learning to love yourself can you love others better and give them positive guidance.

“Learn to protect yourself, but don’t let that hide your beauty.”

Once I read a novel, I was deeply shocked by a sentence in it. This sentence goes like this: “You can teach your child to be on guard against strangers and be alert, but you can’t let her be afraid to wear a flower skirt. Otherwise, what’s the use of us?”

Every time a woman is assaulted or hurt in the news, there is always a group of people who say, “Don’t you dress like this to attract crime?”

“Why isn’t he looking for anyone but you?”

There are so many such statements, even from women, that it is hard to imagine the purpose and the mood with which they could have uttered such victim-culpability.

At a museum in the United States, the clothes that the girls wore when they were assaulted are on display. They range from white T-shirts to plain sweaters.

When a rose is plucked, do you blame it for being too beautiful? The only guilty person is the criminal who can’t help himself to destroy the flowers, not the rose willing to bloom its beauty under the blue sky.

You should tell your daughter, “Remember to protect yourself, but don’t be afraid of your beauty!”

【 Conclusion 】

In this era of opportunities and challenges, both men and women have the opportunity to realize their values in life. So, stop saying that your daughter is not as good as a boy, is a man or a woman, as a parent, should be well brought up!