My baby woke me up crying in the night with dreams and pee-holding, so I pressed sleepy to soothe her. Until she went to sleep peacefully, but I had no more sleep.
Before going to bed, the baby drew on her own. Strong was going to go back to work, but when he saw that she was drawing very seriously and that her drawing level had improved, he gave up his work to lie down next to the baby to watch her draw and talk to me.
The heart is full of pride and pride, proud of what? The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the actual website.
Uh, off-topic …
When it comes to parenting, I had an idea from the time of my baby’s birth, although he is a baby, but he is an independent individual. I want to fully respect his natural growth law, give him enough to explore the boundaries of the world’s possibilities, simply put, before the age of 2, like eating, dressing, going to the toilet, these essential survival skills, the sooner you master the better. Because this is the perfect opportunity to exercise his brain to coordinate his body, so the eldest baby at the age of 1, will eat, dress, go to the toilet by himself.
Initially, many people (in fact, the family) did not understand, blaming me for not feeding the child, insisting that he eat by himself, not to mention the waste of food, spilled everywhere, washing and rinsing strange trouble. Please note the part in bold, probably most parents can not tolerate the scene, hey, and then explode a photo, let you see, what is their own meal?
Little baby eating on his own
I have tried vegetable puree, millet porridge, and meat puree, but she did not accept anything but porridge and did not eat at all, and then she liked to eat with us. My family’s taste is mainly light, other family members add their own condiments after the meal is ready, and also give him to eat our meals together.
Dabao eating watermelon by himself
In these two photos, they are about the same age, both are close to 1 year old. In my opinion, letting children eat on their own is exercising their finger grasping ability and brain coordination. Like children drawing and playing, I would be very permissive and just play as long as it is safe…
Playing with mud
As long as there is an opportunity, children will play a lot, how good. How many of them living mostly in the city now have seen such a scene? Even the parents who saw, their faces, I can imagine the kind of expression, the mouth, they will be very disgusted eyes plus a “dirty” …
In my eyes, these are the sensory training for children, is a good experience for them to come to this world. And let the children eat by themselves a reason, clothes dirty can be washed, the table and floor dirty can be wiped, children’s childhood fun, the past is really no longer.
Recently, I’ve been working on my child’s face wiping skills again.
Every time I see my child doing these fine movements, I feel that this is a blessing from God. For example, when my little one sees me combing my hair, he will offer to help me. At the beginning, it will pull the hair, a little pain, it’s okay, let her try a few more times will be fine…
As a parent, don’t be afraid to let yourself become a child and enjoy the time you have with your child. Take care of the child inside you from time to time. It is the nature of children to explore the unknown. Parents, do not kill the child’s nature, but to ensure the safety of the premise, as much as possible to let them try.
To sum up, it is, let the child can do hands on hands, can move mouth on mouth, ha ha ha. (Please note that hands means trying new things on your own, and mouth is to practice your child’s language organization and expression skills)
