The world of a child is like a blank sheet of paper. The attention of parents determines the development of a child’s character
From the discovery of the existence of the child, to the birth of the child, until the child adult, everything is involved in the heart of the parent.
Every time a child babbles and toddles, it not only shows their strong curiosity about the world, but also makes mom and dad realize the joy and responsibility of parenthood.
Children’s world is like a piece of white paper, allowing adults to paint on it, at the same time, children also have biological instincts, have their own personality habits.
Different personality habits indicate different development directions and interests of children in the future. Parents’ attention to children also affects the formation of children’s personalities.
The character a child displays during infancy is the character they come with and have in themselves. Some babies are very quiet, but do not appear dull, perhaps adult teasing may be disturbing to them, but not crying, but is a good time for them to observe and learn.
At this time, the performance of adults is particularly important, the need to observe the baby’s emotions, experience the baby’s feelings, and then subconsciously to guide, so that children in the limited time and space to learn more knowledge and ability.
This type of baby, the character of the late development will be very calm, learning will have a down-to-earth feeling, seriously lay a good foundation, accumulate, do things will have a sense of victory in hand, relatively easy to succeed.
People doing things will appear to be a fool, very deceptive, but for their interpersonal relations to lay a good foundation.
Some babies are very lively and active, have a strong interest in all new things, learning ability is also very strong, not unfamiliar. If parents guide properly, the baby must be lively, cheerful, generous and interesting person, but this baby may have inattentive withdrawal, occasionally like to do small actions.
At this time, mom and dad should pay attention to cultivating the baby’s concentration, coupled with the baby’s own learning interest and learning ability, it is sure to stand out among the children, and it is also very good for the child’s future development.
Some parents will feel that the child is active, blindly blame the child, thus ignoring the child’s future development, but miss the child’s best growth and learning opportunity.
Some babies may not be very active or very quiet, but they are very receptive and understanding, they are very good at imitating, and they tend to do what adults do, they like to do, and they learn exactly the same way. Adults have done the action, have the behavior, they will unknowingly show, silently remember in mind.
At this time, parents must have good behavior habits, contribute to the development of children’s physical and mental health, and set a good example in the children’s cognitive life. At the same time, parents can also consciously learn to help their children develop the good habit of loving reading. Even if they do not love reading, they can also create a scholarly atmosphere, so as to gain points for their children’s future and cultivate their interest from an early age. The child’s personality is also evident later in life.
Different children have different personalities and habits, but they are ignorant at first. At this time, the benefits of family environment are reflected. Families that pay attention to details and focus on cultivating children can quickly accept and integrate children into the new world as long as they observe children’s personalities, pay attention to changing ways, and have different attitudes and training methods for children with different personalities. Develop good behavior habits.
Do not pay attention to the state of the children of the family, if the beginning did not pay attention to the children, behind the more to focus on the children, do not need to stare at all the time. But also to be careful and careful, to raise the child at heart. With different ways to cultivate children with different personalities, parents will also be much easier.