Growing Pains
Yesterday, my wife had a late night study session.
She didn’t take the time to wash up and go to bed after the study session, but she seriously wanted to talk to me about the problems my child had recently encountered
The child told her, and she didn’t know what to do.
The child is very good, at least in this area of study.
Parents tutoring in place, mainly his mother tutoring in place, primary one or two grade can have how much knowledge?
The child also knows how to learn, the results have been in the class to maintain the leading position, or class president, the class management is quite dedicated.
But the child feels that he seems to have been rejected and hostile by his classmates recently.
When he moves closer to his classmates, some of them get up in arms, saying that the class president is here and is not as friendly as before.
The child knows that learning is important, but he doesn’t want to lose friends because he is too good at it.
And, as the children grow older, he now manages the class more and more difficult to manage.
When he deducts this child’s points, this child will climb: that whoever talks too, how come you don’t care about her, how come you don’t deduct her points.
I thought about it briefly and wrote a note to the child this morning, the main meaning of which was.
1, jealousy is a disease, let them jealous go, you have to continue to excel. Go your own way, as long as the road is right, we must firmly adhere to.
2.Humility makes people progress, the better you are the more humble you have to be, quit being proud and quit being impatient.
3.Friends have beneficial friends and detrimental friends, those who can make progress with you are the beneficial friends.
4.Find more merits of your classmates and sincerely give praise to them. The more praise you give, the more friendship you will harvest.
5.Management class is for the good of the class, management who is not who is good, want him to discipline, want him to learn well.
6, I am the class president, you speak I have to control you, I control whether others you can not control me. Not convinced you can go tell the class teacher.
7, to learn to lend a hand, more reports to the class teacher, ask for instructions, more communication with the class teacher, more questions to the class teacher.
If the homeroom teacher gives you a stand, establish your authority as class president, and then rectify the class atmosphere, the formation of you catch up with me to learn from the best students, then these problems will be solved.