What are the reasons why children don’t like to stay in kindergarten? In these aspects, parents should pay attention

Every year to the school season, to send their children to school, has become the first priority for parents, after all, to settle their children, parents can rest assured to go to work. However, there are many difficulties in the face of children who have just entered kindergarten, separated from their parents, and reintegrated into a new family and unfamiliar environment. So we can often see children crying into small cats in the kindergarten, and crying and laughing children teachers.

Apart from feeling helpless and afraid and unwilling to give up with their parents, what other factors cause children to dislike staying in kindergarten?

diet

Children often have sensitive experiences of color, shape, etc., and parents cater to their children’s unique preferences. At home, children can choose their favorite color and shape of rice bowl or tableware such as chopsticks and spoons, which greatly increases their desire for food.

However, after children arrive at kindergarten, there will be some personal preferences for eating utensils cannot be satisfied, and some small emotions will arise.

Secondly, when children are at home, parents more or less have some influence on their children’s dietary preferences, such as liking sweet food or liking sour food and spicy food. But when it comes to kindergarten, nutritionists will make a reasonable mix of food for children, which cannot meet children’s individual needs, which is one of the reasons why children do not like to go to kindergarten.

accommodation

Sleeping is a big thing in life, everyone has their own unique sleeping habits, so sleeping habits are also affecting the kindergarten impression of children on the one hand.

Some children sleep relatively light, some children touch the bed to sleep, some children used to hold a plush toy to sleep, some children sleep will constantly change the position, or some children need to be in a particularly black environment, to sleep.

Due to the existence of a variety of habits, so when children enter kindergarten there will be a lot of adaptation, noisy environment can not sleep, can not sleep in a crowded place, can not sleep without their own familiar environment and so on.

Hygienic habit

The hygienic habits here refer to washing, going to the toilet and so on.

I have heard a treasure mother said that her child learned to go to the toilet very early, but on the first day of kindergarten, she went to pick up her child, but found the child pulled in his pants, crying.

Many mothers did not rush to criticize the child, but patiently asked the child the reason, the child told the mother that the kindergarten toilets are all public, the child was embarrassed.

Although the mother was surprised, but also understand, after all, the child at home to go to the toilet, the child is shy, has been afraid to go to the kindergarten toilet, this is the pants.

Affective expression

Kindergarten children have a deep emotional attachment to their parents. Before kindergarten, they were accompanied by their parents. If children have any needs, as long as they tell their parents, almost every reasonable demand will be satisfied. But to the kindergarten, almost all children have their own needs, and the number of kindergarten teachers is limited, can not meet every need of every child, then the children will feel neglected, and have lost emotions.

The above problems are only a few of the more prominent problems children face in kindergarten, so how to let children adapt to the kindergarten life as soon as possible?

Parents do kindergarten in advance to understand before entering the kindergarten

The main understanding of kindergarten diet, accommodation, health conditions, teachers and so on.

Understanding this does not necessarily mean that you must send your child to the best kindergarten at all costs. It’s about pre-kindergarten training with the information that you know in advance, for example, giving the information to the child and asking the child to express what they think. Then the parents help the children analyze the pros and cons, and tell them what they need to overcome by themselves, what needs to be expressed to the teacher, and what things they must tell their parents.

Do some training preparation

There are some conditions that we can change, but there are some things that cannot be changed, so parents might as well do some specific training for their children to help them adapt to the new living environment and conditions.

Kindergarten life is a starting line to cultivate children, this stage can let children learn to adapt to the outside environment, the formation of honor and shame values. So, come on, mom and dad, be sure to get ready before your child enters the kindergarten.