After a father has a daughter, all become tender, all the love to her is not enough

Not long ago, a friend gave birth to a daughter, just out of the month can not help but complain: gave birth to a daughter is also a husband? When I just fell in love with my husband, I always thought that his taciturn, will not say sweet words character is factory, natural, did not expect to have this function! I just didn’t develop it myself. Now come back from work immediately is a daughter, holding also side coax: “little darling”, “good baby” “little baby” change patterns to call the baby… He has never been treated this way, said that the daughter is a father’s little lover, this is true, but also with this “rival in love” helpless.

She also said: once a colleague came to see the baby, just want to touch the baby’s face, was blocked by the husband, said his skin is rough, will make the girl feel uncomfortable, suggest to look at the line, my friend looked at the scene next to protect the baby, exclaimed: the man mind can be so delicate ah!

After the birth of the month, every time to change the diaper husband rushed to do, ask him “why the baby was born at that time you do not care.” He said: The first time I held her, I thought the baby was too soft, so I was afraid to move. After some time, I dared to move slowly. Now when her daughter cries, as long as her father holds her, she will immediately stop crying. How to coax her mother to hold her is useless. She feels that she plays a heavy role in participation.

Yeah, even the steely straight guy can get soft when it comes to his daughter, look at the baby, and think it’s not enough to give her all the love.

In fact, it’s not just her husband who shows it, right? In life, there are so many of these dads.

The previous leader, usually not smiling, always a serious look, do things quickly, work ability is very strong, the body around the high pressure aura. Even a man who once reduced a new intern to tears at a meeting with his serial rhetorical questions and absolute freezing would instantly switch into child mode when confronted with his daughter.

One time, his five-year-old daughter called to ask when she could see her father. She said she had been waiting for her father for a long time and missed her father. The daughter asked the father to sing before he would go to bed. The leader sang a song of three bears immediately. Although he was born with a loud voice, he answered the phone in his private office, but the loud singing also made us outside a full ear and opened our eyes.

In the eyes of fathers, daughters are used to spoil. In front of their daughters, they can put down their armor and leave behind all the identities outside. They can stand at the same height with their daughters and communicate with their children’s perspective and tone. Everything about their daughter is lovely in their eyes, and they will try to meet any needs of their daughter. The reason is: as long as my daughter is happy.

From the moment the daughter was born, the father was destined to be a “daughter slave”, no matter how old the daughter, in the eyes of the father are little princess, daughter said every word he will put in mind, there is a little unhappy are anxious, once reduced, never turn over.

What are the benefits of having a father who is a slave to his daughter?

It is beneficial to cultivate her daughter’s resolute character

Girls are born with feminine beauty, and children are naturally close to their mothers, and children learn some typical characteristics of women. But to grow up to be truly powerful requires an androgynous personality that combines feminine softness with masculine determination. If girls can contact with their fathers from childhood, children can learn the qualities of their fathers imperceptibly.

You can keep a cool head when you’re in love

Daughters who are pamped by their fathers grow up bathed in full father’s love. When they grow up to fall in love, they will not be deeply attracted by “small favors” from the opposite sex. They will be more objective and rational.

In fact, love and be loved two people are happy, in the eyes of my father, I am very honored to choose me among many fathers, in the future days I will use my life to escort you. And those who are father’s pet daughter, grow up in the shower of father’s love is how lucky, they have strength behind, eyes have hope, will grow up healthy and happy.