Help children take care of the elderly, in the end how much? Please stop complaining and be nice to them!
Before this sentence is not impressed, but after their own experience of marriage and children, experience a lot, feeling quite deep, recall the parents once all kinds of guilt. This reminds me of a sentence – only do their own parents, to understand our parents.
It was not easy for them to bring up our generation through hardship. Now, because of our need, and with a faltering pace to help us take the next generation, white hair is the traces of years to bring them, but they say nothing, still happy.
Before I, and can not feel their old, this year’s physical examination, the doctor’s sentence “osteoporosis, not important, and old age, usually pay more attention to calcium, do not fall, it is easy to fracture.” It took me a long time.
It turned out that in the past, I had neglected my parents, their emotional needs, their physical needs, and their love for me.
How wrong I am!
The old people who help their children take care of their children, they do not have nothing to do, but because of the love for their children, let them swallow their pride and pay a lifetime of anonymity, and because of the extension of this love, there will be more love for their children naturally.
When we dislike that the elderly care for children is too spoiled, please don’t get angry and try to communicate with each other. After all, there is a big difference between the two generations in the concept of child-rearing. When we abandon the elderly with children do not speak hygiene, please do not rush to scold, teach them more, after all, they that age, feed is difficult, how to health at all; When we dislike the old people’s bad habit of taking care of children, please don’t talk about it and try to correct it, because at that time, there was no Internet or mobile phone, but only the experience passed down from generation to generation.
So what happened to the old man who took care of his children?
There are mainly three cases:
Living with children: There is a lot of noise in life, but fireworks are also the most powerful, family members, understanding each other, share each other, most of the elderly can enjoy their old age, happy.
Living alone: Relatively free, but living apart from their children, they often do not see each other for a long time. They belong to the elderly living alone and feel lonely.
Living in a nursing home: I seldom communicate with my children, but there are old people of the same age in the nursing home, so it is convenient for me to communicate and the environment is good.
So, if it were you, which of the above would you want your parents to fall into?
If it is me, I hope it is the first kind, to paraphrase the popular phrase now, “you raise me young, I raise you old”, I believe that many young people will still uphold this belief, to be kind to the old people who gave birth to us to raise us, to help us take care of children.
Don’t start pushing them away just because they’re old, their bodies are getting old, they have some old disease or they can’t help. It is our duty as children to take good care of our elderly parents, and it is also a little feedback for their lifetime of service.
Crows know to feed, let alone us?
How we treat our parents, our children all see in the eyes, parents are the best example for children, children are a creature to learn, just imagine, everyone will have an old day, we hope our children how to us? Let’s treat our parents the way we expect them to be treated.
Cherish the people who put themselves as children, they are the people who love us for a lifetime, which day, they really disappear from this world, that our last layer of protection, there is no. Later, want to act like a spoiled person, there is no one around to act like a spoiled person, think about, it is how sad.
Son to support, but not close, is the most indescribable pain and regret in life. People can not wait later, filial piety as soon as possible!
