The second child family how to appease the first baby

1. families with two children, to a large extent, will focus on the second. The boss does not get attention, the psychological changes will occur. So pay more attention to the oldest.

2. adults are generally busy when they will let the oldest and the second play. When you still have time to cook and time to brush the phone, do not forget that you save your heart, because the oldest for you to carry the weight forward. So, more hugs and hugs to the oldest, to express your gratitude.

Sometimes a parent’s words an attitude, will affect the child’s life.

3. buy toys to buy clothes to buy anything basically one person. Or buy a copy, say well in advance with the second and the oldest, this is everyone’s, two people can play.

4. can take the oldest out alone to play, or do things he likes together. Let him feel that mom and dad still love him, but the second is small and needs some extra attention.

5. When the oldest is in conflict with the oldest, remember to deal with it fairly, do not be partial to the second.

6. Tell the eldest baby, of course mommy and daddy love you, you are our most important baby but sister (brother) is too small and needs more care. This will be one more person to love you!

7. try to let the first baby more involved in the care of the second baby, to develop feelings