Careless parents, poor son: your carelessness, may need children to pay with their lives!

Some time ago, a topic on the Internet, caused a lot of parents heated discussion, the content said that people in the past to go to school with a bag on their own, and now the children whether it is school or school, all need their parents to pick them up.

Some people say: this is because the child is more and more delicate; Others say: it is because parents spoil. In fact, the main reason for this phenomenon is the change of the environment.

With the appearance of tall buildings, more cars and more people, the previously safe streets become dangerous. Children’s way to school can be dangerous if they are not careful, so many parents worry about their children and have to pick them up.

In fact, in addition to roads, elevators, stairways and even doors can now endanger a child’s life.

Not long ago, a 12-year-old boy was riding alone in an elevator when it broke down. Despite trying to save himself and ringing the doorbell, he fell to his death along with the falling elevator.

As a 12-year-old child, confronted with such an emergency, he kept calm and carried out necessary self-rescue operations. However, many adults were not as good as a child, and it was because of their negligence that the tragedy was finally caused. For example, the property of the community does not regularly troubleshoot the elevator, resulting in the elevator disrepair failure, which is the negligence of the property.

In addition to the property, the parents’ behavior has a more profound impact on the children, because the children in daily life with the parents is the most contact, at this time any unruly operation of the parents may endanger the children’s life.

For example: everyone is familiar with the escalator, escalator for adults is very safe, there is no danger, but for children can be deadly.

A four-year-old girl in Hebei Province was following her mother to buy vegetables in the vegetable section on the second floor of a supermarket when the toy she was holding rolled onto the elevator.

The little girl ran to the elevator alone to pick up a toy, was carried directly by the moving elevator, and fell to the first floor of the supermarket. The mother on the second floor discovered the child’s condition and rushed to the first floor to take the child to the hospital. But it was too late, the child’s brain had been damaged, the doctor said the child’s intelligence would be affected.

From the mother’s perspective, none of this might have happened if she had spotted the drop of the toy, noticed that the child was moving away from her, and told him not to touch the elevator.

But many parents don’t think it’s a big deal, even if they see their children fiddling with the elevator or playing on it. It is the parents’ unsuspecting and knowing attitude that creates one accident after another.

Type child, accident, elevator, parents into a search engine and you’ll see similar incidents happening all the time:

The parents knew their children were playing in the elevator, but did not stop them, resulting in the accidental death of their children.

Parents allow children to go back and forth alone in the elevator several times, the elevator broke down, the child and the elevator directly into the first floor;

The grandmother was taking the escalator with her newborn baby boy when she accidentally stepped on the wrong two steps, causing the baby to fall into the first floor and eventually died.

Some parents will blame the elevator, the property management, and the security personnel for these incidents, as if they have nothing to do with themselves, because this can make their inner guilt and grief feel better. But before the child accident, parents are the most clear, parents are also the closest person to the child, but the parents ultimately did not save the child, if at this moment parents do not know how to reflect on their lack of education, then it is likely to harm the next child.

How can parents teach their children to prevent elevator accidents to the greatest extent possible?

First of all, when facing the escalator, parents should hold their children’s hands to get off the elevator.

The space on the elevator is relatively narrow, and there are more people. At this time, if the parents do not hold the hand of the child, it is easy to cause the child to be pushed off the elevator by others, or even fall off the elevator because of pushing.

The most important thing is that some gaps in the escalator are not important to adults, but very dangerous to children’s small bodies. Some children naughty, it is likely to lead to hands and feet into the gap in the elevator, a few years ago because of a child’s hand in the elevator had to amputate the tragic event.

Second, parents should tell their children not to play on the escalators.

Some children just contact the elevator think automatic escalator is very interesting, will run up and down on the elevator, which is easy to cause elevator safety accidents, but also a kind of uncivilized performance, parents should discipline their children more.

For the elevator in the floor, parents should educate their children not to press the elevator button randomly, some children are naughty, after entering the elevator will press all the buttons of the floor again, so it is easy to cause the elevator failure, resulting in children being locked in the elevator.

What if a child accidentally gets locked in an elevator?

Parents should teach children to use the following methods in advance to improve their self-saving ability and self-saving consciousness.

First, tell the child to remain calm and rational, then press the red button inside the elevator to signal the alarm.

Second, you can ask your child to bang on the elevator door and shout for help.

Finally, tell the child to wait patiently for rescue workers.

Tell your children that even if they see the elevator doors open a little, they should still be patient and stay in the elevator. Because the elevator may be bobbing up and down, children who see the doors open a little and get out immediately can easily get caught in the middle of the doors.

If they want to cultivate their children’s ability to ride the escalator alone, parents should tell their children: when taking the escalator, they should pay attention to the elevator at their feet, step on the center of the elevator, and hold the elevator rail with their hands, keep the upper body stable, do not look left and right, do not let the body lean out of the elevator, so as to avoid collision.

Parents can also collect books and videos about elevator precautions and self-help guides to show their children to help them understand.

When the accident comes, it may be caused by a variety of factors, or the parents can not save the child. However, parents should at least try their best to tell their children what they can do and what they can’t do, cultivate their awareness of self-preservation and the ability to deal with emergencies, and minimize the possibility of accidents. In this way, the child may truly thank you for a lifetime.