This time I came home to a different feeling from the past, maybe really these two years with children, and age has grown ……
The day before yesterday I discussed with a sister about her child, everyone’s child is a treasure, I did not say anything very direct words …… what I want to know more is why his child is always grabbing other people’s things? In other people’s homes, in the street, no matter what time, as long as others are playing he went up to grab, take for themselves, more incomprehensible is the child’s grandmother no matter unless the last resort to go up to pull the child away …… this is very people speechless.
So I began to chat with this sister-in-law, only to find that it is not the reason for the child’s grandmother, more from the child’s mother! Sister-in-law told me that since she was spoiled by the child’s maternal grandfather, everything is to let their own nature to, not moving to lose their temper, the child is also, and even hit the child, she can not control themselves …… so his grandmother is also a variety of heartache ……
One side is too detained children, while letting go of the child …………
I even found around a car over or even an electric car, his child was scared to stand on the side of the road and did not dare to move, the body is very stiff stand there, how I coaxing teasing can not, a step did not dare to take, the sound of firecrackers or even the sound of the horn this child can be scared to drill to the grandmother’s arms so that the grandmother held scared to look up …… …… this is a little too much! This is how to scare the child into this, I am heartbroken from the bottom of my heart!
When I don’t understand these situations, I really hate this child, because I never taught one by one to hit people, this child grab one by one things also all kinds of small movements to hit people, I really angry, even to the face very loudly told his mother: hurry up and hit him!
Now that I think about it, it’s really not right, this child is the least of the scolding, right? So I held him in my arms today, he looked at me and smiled at me, I also found that from the time I held him he became less naughty!
I talked to the sister-in-law, I think I’m too redundant, because people do not seem to listen, she knows her own “problem”, because the relationship is very close so I want to tell her that the child may have a problem, but she seems to know that the child has a problem, she can not do the key point is that she can not control herself!
I gave her an example: listening to my uncle lecture, he put a video clip, a car driving on the viaduct, the mother and son quarrel, the son is 16 years old, the quarrel process son is very angry, regardless of the speed of the car opened the door from the viaduct jumped …… car stopped, his mother from the car down to look down at the son’s body, the howling ……
This is a real thing, in fact, I am not scaring her, but tell her that the education of children is really important! The role of the mother is half of the child’s life or even affect the child’s entire life!
But the reality is, people don’t seem to care much, probably because the child is relatively small, just over a year less than two years old! But the problem is at the root! Children do not remember now, but some people also say that the education of children before the age of 3 is important.
Just don’t miss time! Growing up only happens once!
Some also say that the big things about children, any compromise and laziness of parents will be returned in full when the child grows up, this is a little change in my heart, and about the child’s daily life.
