Children are not machines, please don’t raise them in the way of a mechanic

Teacher once said that all regular items in the world are simple systems, for example, a car, which seems very complicated, has a lot of parts, like wheels, shell, floor, windows, transmission, engine a series of etc. etc. items to assemble, but this car it is extremely simple, as long as the assembly instructions, we can easily put it together, in time it use process Problems arise, we only need to replace the parts in question will be able to continue to use.

But as a child, in the same class, the same position, the same teacher to teach, a class of students inside the academic performance are different, in the same family inside the twins, completely two different character, you do not know is that sentence or which book can change their lives, so education is actually an extremely complex matter.

One.

We look at the animal world, often see the sea inside the sardine group, they keep swimming in the child, constantly changing form, but never scattered, in time when a shark comes over to bite them, they are like consciousness, scattered a perfect round hole, so that the shark shuttle over, but if only a sardine but no such awareness. In order to figure out the movement rules of the sardine group, the original package computer scientists used a computer simulation of sardines, a small arrow represents a sardine, to each arrow input three instructions “follow the sardine in front, and the left and right sides of the sardine to maintain equal distance, and keep the distance between the sardine and the back” and then randomly push one of Then use the mouse to simulate a shark and input the arrow to move away from the mouse, and once the mouse passes, all the arrows move away perfectly without collision. Seemingly so complex schools of fish, it turns out that only a simple short three instructions can be completed.

Two

In our life, there are hard-working carpenters, hard-working gardeners, carpenters every day with hammers, saws, nails and other tools, every day busy sweating, and finally made, often they have long been carved in their hearts the appearance of items, such as tables or chairs, but when the items are made into shape, the table can only be used as a table, they are lifeless, can not continue to flower and fruit, can not They can’t continue to blossom and turn into other items for use, while the gardener, they only need to sow seeds, glue, fertilize, and then just hold the cup of tea waiting for the flowers to bloom, they didn’t bother to restrain the flowers and let them develop freely, and often such seeds, in order to bloom the flowers we want.

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We often see mute and unspiritual students in prestigious institutions, with thick eyes and two dull eyes, but when the teacher just wrote out the question on the blackboard, they knew the answer, because they had done the question thousands of times, and such children out will do the question, what else will they do? When they come to society, they will not be able to adapt to the rhythm of life in society, and at most they will be shouted at as nerds, and our education is just like that, step by step, turning our children into what we want them to be, but they lose their most valuable things.

Children’s education, we think as long as the simple brutal let children to study, to test, to go to a famous university even if the task is completed, but this is the real stifling of the child’s natural spirituality, we may let the child eventually aversion to learning, in time to enter the famous university, in the absence of family constraints, but to go crazy games, wasting their own education, so only let the child truly love learning, in learning to find the real fun, and to find the real fun. So only by letting children truly love learning and find real fun in learning can they finally stand out and become their true selves.