Children’s world, maybe adults really do not understand, these 5 things you can understand a few?

It is said that “there are ten thousand Hamlets in the eyes of ten thousand people”. This saying is used to show adults that everyone’s opinion is worthy of respect.

Since every adult’s world is so different, how much do adults know about the thoughts of children’s worlds? Children’s eyes of the world, there should be a lot of parents can not understand the situation.

Today, let’s summarize some of the amazing things that happen to kids:

Rainy day

On rainy days, parents think rain will bring a lot of inconvenience, such as: commuting, picking up and dropping off children, because rainy days will make these things more troublesome.

But kids get so excited when it rains, because they can step in puddles outside, and they can fight outside like warriors.

In the children’s world, they don’t think that stepping in puddles will make clothes dirty and wet and cause colds. Instead, they think that stepping in puddles is fun.

peekaboo

Hide and seek game, in the interaction between parents and children is quite high frequency, parents in the eyes of hide and seek is a thing, this thing can drive children on the one hand to exercise, on the other hand to drive children to take the initiative to think, find and look for goals.

But in the eyes of children, peekaboo becomes “very” mysterious, in their eyes, there is someone chasing them, can feel very exciting.

The more important difference is that in the game of hide and seek, parents win by never being found, whereas in the child’s world, it is not hiding that is the happiest, but finding the moment is the most exciting.

Tear a piece of paper

Parents see their children tear paper everywhere, flying pieces of paper, must make parents headache. However, in the eyes of children, tearing pieces of paper, sprinkling them into the air for a moment will feel very happy, they love this sense of destruction and exploration.

Sleep in the dark

Parents must have encountered fear of the dark when their children were very young, or when they entered unfamiliar environments. At this time, some parents do not understand, feel afraid of the dark close your eyes will be OK, how afraid to cry?

In fact, children’s eyes of the night, is the “devil” of the night, in the night is equivalent to facing all kinds of monsters alone in the world, so will be afraid.

Blow your hair with a hair dryer

It is normal for parents to use a hair dryer after washing their hair. But in the eyes of children, when they use a hair dryer to blow their hair, they feel like they are going to be blown away, and the sound of the hair dryer scares them.

In fact, parents and children do not understand each other there are a lot of things, for this difference, parents do these things, perhaps will understand:

Understand and respect your child’s perspective

Children are always curious about the world. Parents should learn to understand their children’s curiosity about the world and respect their whimsy.

Parents should support and encourage their children when they have fantastic ideas, and remember to say “don’t think crazy”.

Listen to your child

In fact, when the child can speak, can express themselves, parents can communicate with the child in some ways, just like an adult.

Parents need and need to know the true thoughts of children, and want to understand the child, need to let the child speak their own ideas, so parents should learn to listen, and give help.

Have more company

It is said that companionship is the longest confession of love, especially when the child sends out signals of fear and fear, the most important thing parents should do is to accompany.

Accompany your child through the fearful times, accompany your child to do the things he is afraid to do, slowly give him confidence, until the child is no longer afraid and afraid, then slowly withdraw.

Parents try not to use other people’s children as a reference point

As we all know, when parents take other people’s children as reference objects, the main purpose is to encourage their children, promote growth, make them more progress.

But sometimes this kind of encouragement will backfire, the use of the wrong method or frequent use will aggravate children’s rebellious psychology, even inferiority, so this move should be carefully used.

Parents may as well try to encourage their children, give them more praise, make children more confident, this kind of encouragement education may be more positive than suppressing education.

When parents do not understand their children, they need to put themselves in their children’s shoes and think about their ideas. For example, when parents were young, there must be a lot of ideas were strangled in the cradle by their parents, which may lead to their lack of courage and self-confidence.

Parents need to give their children more encouragement, encourage them to believe in themselves and encourage them to be supported as long as they have ideas.

Children are the hope of the future of the motherland, parents are the children’s first enlightenment teacher, adult world view will affect the child, the child’s world view will affect the future of the motherland, therefore, parents need to establish a correct world view, scientific parenting.

Please put down their own height, low to the same height as the child, perhaps this way parents can be more clear about the child’s situation, the child can also know the adults are not easy.